tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8587854085074704804.post3331830426263285927..comments2023-03-28T02:37:47.152-07:00Comments on New Pyjamas - Adoption Journey from Adopted to Adopter: PatienceNewPyjamaMummyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05830317824056874805noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8587854085074704804.post-10615399326684270762013-03-22T16:14:00.169-07:002013-03-22T16:14:00.169-07:00the walking out the room momentarily is often enou...the walking out the room momentarily is often enough for us both to then want and be ready for the hug and sorry and kiss and make up - which is the best bit, anyway, isn't it!NewPyjamaMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05830317824056874805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8587854085074704804.post-18598443418910281602013-03-21T09:34:50.763-07:002013-03-21T09:34:50.763-07:00Oh yes, Raah is very familiar with me too - someti...Oh yes, Raah is very familiar with me too - sometimes we are really stretched and we can only do the best we can in any given moment - anyway your strategy for coping with your feelings sounds really good - going out of the room and taking a deep breath - and you are role modelling some thing very important - containing yourself and then the big kiss and make up at the end. X. Older Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923339244117157344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8587854085074704804.post-18438737244993699582013-03-18T07:49:35.545-07:002013-03-18T07:49:35.545-07:00thanks, Becky. It isn't all day or every day -...thanks, Becky. It isn't all day or every day - but the loudness of my raaaah takes me by surprise at times. thanks for the encouragement that is will pass - and it is good to know someone else has these moments too!NewPyjamaMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05830317824056874805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8587854085074704804.post-72913438208840157692013-03-18T01:13:02.574-07:002013-03-18T01:13:02.574-07:00Oooooh yes, I recognise that Raaaah!! Those days ...Oooooh yes, I recognise that Raaaah!! Those days when it seems that the only voice I've used is that nagging, irritated one! Don't worry - these things will pass. My boys will often adopt new, challenging behaviours that we struggle over for weeks until I'm at my wits end, and then they'll suddenly seem to get over that phase and I'll wonder what I was so worked up about. Mind you, it's usually replaced by some other new and interesting challenge! I get through it by remembering that each morning brings a fresh new day, and trying not to carry the frustrations of yesterday over into today. Easier said than done, I know!Rebecca Brookshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03323122949121536943noreply@blogger.com